As a woman, you have dreamed many dreams for yourself. Whatever you might have dreamed of, reaching the heights in your career or of raising a loving family, always try to fulfil your aspirations. A career target may be easy to achieve if you give it enough time and hard work but in your personal life, you will always find that maintaining a relationship and comply with the expectations of all your family members and your friends and boyfriend.
If you have found a guy whom you like very much, you should take efforts to turn your ‘just dating’ stage of you relationship into a mature and healthy stage. Many women make the mistake of giving up what could have been a long term relationship; you must not make the same blunder.
Here are some tips to get your special person to want you –
· Make a great impression on your first few dates by dressing up and being lively. This will get him to take extra interest in you.
· After you have started your relationship, let him know of your feelings. If you like him too much, don’t be very obvious, show it subtly. Man can often read a woman’s body language.
· Don’t discuss your relationship issues in with your best friend right in front of him. He will come to trust you with his personal problems if you don’t embarrass him publically.
· Never become desperate and tell him that ‘he is the one’ until you are committed. Most men will run as far away from you as they can if you say the words ‘I love you’ within a few weeks of dating. So be careful not to drive him away.
· Keep your emotions in check when you are having an argument so that you don’t over react. They are unable to handle it. Also, pestering is a big turn off for men.
· Be yourself but don’t be boring intentionally and show him how fun you can be.
· If you disapprove of something, tell him in the sweetest manner possible. He will fall head over heels for you when he sees the lovable side of you.
To know about men and relationships, read Alex Carters book called How to Make Him Desire You. He guides women with various theories and suggestions on dealing with all the problems they might face in the course of a relationship. It is available online as an e-book for $47.